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Have you ever felt a craving so strong it made your heart pound, your breath quicken, and your mind race with delicious possibilities?
Maybe itās a sexual spark, a creative idea, or an unstoppable urge to travel, build, or love.
š” Hereās the truth: that surge isnāt a flawāitās fuel.
Desire is life...
When was the last time you let yourself play?
Not perform. Not achieve. Not check off a box. But actually play ā like a child on a swing set, hair flying, not caring about anything but the joy of the moment.
For many of us, life feels like a checklist. Degrees, jobs, relationships, responsibilitie...
For years, I thought love meant always saying yes.
Yes to favors I didnāt want to do.
Yes to crossing my own boundaries.
Yes to bending myself into whatever version of me I thought others wanted.
I told myself it was kindness. I told myself it was love. But the truth? It wasnāt love at all.
It was...
š¹ My Story
When I was younger, saying no to drugs was easy. They felt foreign, dangerous, and outside of me. But intimacy? That was different.
Sometimes my yes wasnāt a real yes. It was a survival yes.
A ākeep me safeā yes.
A ādonāt leave meā yes.
If youāve ever been there ā where your body whisp...
š The Cry That Almost Broke Me
Iāll never forget the night I thought I lost it all. My husband and I were separated, both seeing other people, and I sat across from him at dinnerāheart pounding, hands tremblingāas I told him the truth: I want you back.
He looked at me with steady eyes and said wor...