Have you ever felt a craving so strong it made your heart pound, your breath quicken, and your mind race with delicious possibilities?

Maybe it’s a sexual spark, a creative idea, or an unstoppable urge to travel, build, or love.

💡 Here’s the truth: that surge isn’t a flaw—it’s fuel.
Desire is life...

When was the last time you let yourself play?

Not perform. Not achieve. Not check off a box. But actually play — like a child on a swing set, hair flying, not caring about anything but the joy of the moment.

For many of us, life feels like a checklist. Degrees, jobs, relationships, responsibilitie...

I’ve built studios. I’ve closed studios.

I’ve signed divorce papers… and then torn them up.
I’ve failed classes, failed in business, failed in friendships.

And I’ve gotten back up. Every. Single. Time.

Because here’s the truth: anything worth doing will test you first.
Failure is not a sign you s...

💭 “I Just Want to Be Held…”

The Psychology of Feeling Loved, Triggered & Human

She stood in the kitchen in her silk robe, leftover mascara beneath her eyes, barefoot, holding a spoon over a pot of soup she hadn’t even tasted. Her phone buzzed again. A short text:

“I think I got it from someone

...

By Heather Owens, RN • MBA • Life & Mindset Coach • Host of Look At Me Now

✨ What if discipline could feel like pleasure?

You’ve probably been told that discipline means sacrifice. That you have to grind, restrict, and push through — even if your soul is screaming no thank you.

But what if I told...

By Coach Heather Owens, RN, MBA — Life & Mindset Coach, Host of Look At Me Now

It’s Not About the Food, Is It?

You just had dinner. You’re full. But somehow… the pantry is calling.

You’re not alone — and you’re not broken. Most of us are eating for emotion, not for energy. And deep down, you alre...

By Coach Heather Owens, RN, MBA | Life Coach, Speaker, Podcast Host

What if the secret to confidence, clarity, and success isn’t in what you do… but in what you believe?

If you’re tired of chasing goals, doubting yourself, or feeling like something’s missing no matter how hard you work — this is...

By Heather Owens, RN, MBA – Speaker • Mindset & Life Coach • Host of Look At Me Now

💫 Influence Isn’t About Pressure—It’s About Presence

You don’t need to talk louder. You don’t need to sell harder.
You just need to show up grounded in who you are—with a message so aligned, so clear, and so full o...

By Heather Owens, RN, MBA – Keynote Speaker | Mindset & Life Coach | Host of the Look At Me Now Podcast

💥 You’re Not Too Much. You’re Just Tuning Into What’s Possible.

When I was twelve, my English teacher pulled me aside and said the words that echoed for years:

“Heather, you’re too much. To...

Hey beautiful soul—welcome to a Coach Heather deep dive. This one is intimate. It’s juicy. And it’s going to shift how you think about connection, desire, and the healing power of touch. 💋

You know that feeling when someone hugs you and your whole body exhales? When a massage feels like medicine, n...

Let’s be real for a second.

Every woman — no matter how confident, successful, or self-aware — has wondered:
"How do I make him fall for me? Deeply. Devotedly. Head over heels."

And more importantly…
How do I inspire that kind of love without chasing, overgiving, or losing myself?

The answer isn’...

The story behind my confidence, comeback energy, and what kept me going

✨ You see the lipstick, the smile, the energy.
You see the woman showing up on camera, dancing boldly, building businesses, spreading joy like confetti.

But what you don’t always see…
Is how many times I almost gave up.
And I ...