Welcome to My Blog

We all want to be seen, loved, and appreciated. A single compliment can light up your entire day. Someone says, “You look amazing,” or “You crushed that project,” and suddenly you feel like you can conquer the world. But then the glow fades, and you find yourself craving the next hit.

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🌹 My Story

When I was younger, saying no to drugs was easy. They felt foreign, dangerous, and outside of me. But intimacy? That was different.

Sometimes my yes wasn’t a real yes. It was a survival yes.
A “keep me safe” yes.
A “don’t leave me” yes.

If you’ve ever been there — where your body whisp...

💔 The Cry That Almost Broke Me

I’ll never forget the night I thought I lost it all. My husband and I were separated, both seeing other people, and I sat across from him at dinner—heart pounding, hands trembling—as I told him the truth: I want you back.

He looked at me with steady eyes and said wor...

I’ve built studios. I’ve closed studios.

I’ve signed divorce papers… and then torn them up.
I’ve failed classes, failed in business, failed in friendships.

And I’ve gotten back up. Every. Single. Time.

Because here’s the truth: anything worth doing will test you first.
Failure is not a sign you s...

🚨 Red Flags, Lockouts & Lessons: How I Walked Away From “The Perfect” Studio Space — And Why You Might Need To, Too

The first time I saw it, I swear my heart skipped a beat.

Two historic brick buildings, built in 1900, standing side by side like sisters. Each had its own loft — one for Lumina, my ...

✨ Sensual Power & Sacred Confidence: Reclaiming Your Sensuality, Your Body, and Your Life

Let’s talk about the fire that lives inside of you.
The one that makes your hips sway without effort.
The one that makes you catch your own reflection and think—oh yes, she’s still in there.
The one that feels...

✨ Look At Me Now: The Truth About Building a Dream Life (From the Inside Out)

You see the photos.
The glowing studio lights.
The curated Canva boards.
The workouts that make you feel alive and fierce.

But what you don’t always see…
is the emotional earthquake it takes to become the woman who build...

💭 “I Just Want to Be Held…”

The Psychology of Feeling Loved, Triggered & Human

She stood in the kitchen in her silk robe, leftover mascara beneath her eyes, barefoot, holding a spoon over a pot of soup she hadn’t even tasted. Her phone buzzed again. A short text:

“I think I got it from someone

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By Heather Owens, RN • MBA • Life & Mindset Coach • Host of Look At Me Now

✨ What if discipline could feel like pleasure?

You’ve probably been told that discipline means sacrifice. That you have to grind, restrict, and push through — even if your soul is screaming no thank you.

But what if I told...

How to Attract, Connect, and Spark Desire—with Heart, Heat & Emotional Intelligence

By Heather Owens, RN, MBA – Life & Mindset Coach • Speaker • Host of the Look At Me Now Podcast

💫 It’s Not About Tricks. It’s About Energy.

You don’t need a new body, pickup line, or dating app to find deep connec...

By Coach Heather Owens, RN, MBA — Life & Mindset Coach, Host of Look At Me Now

It’s Not About the Food, Is It?

You just had dinner. You’re full. But somehow… the pantry is calling.

You’re not alone — and you’re not broken. Most of us are eating for emotion, not for energy. And deep down, you alre...

By Coach Heather Owens, RN, MBA | Life Coach, Speaker, Podcast Host

What if the secret to confidence, clarity, and success isn’t in what you do… but in what you believe?

If you’re tired of chasing goals, doubting yourself, or feeling like something’s missing no matter how hard you work — this is...