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Have you ever felt a craving so strong it made your heart pound, your breath quicken, and your mind race with delicious possibilities?

Maybe it’s a sexual spark, a creative idea, or an unstoppable urge to travel, build, or love.

💡 Here’s the truth: that surge isn’t a flaw—it’s fuel.
Desire is life...

When was the last time you let yourself play?

Not perform. Not achieve. Not check off a box. But actually play — like a child on a swing set, hair flying, not caring about anything but the joy of the moment.

For many of us, life feels like a checklist. Degrees, jobs, relationships, responsibilitie...

This Sunday’s message was about emotions—how they evolve as we grow.

As kids, our emotions are simple: joy, love, kindness, excitement. Then life happens. We grow, we hit puberty, and suddenly embarrassment, anxiety, self-doubt, fear, and frustration show up. Anger has always been there, but it tak...

🌟 Rediscovering Yourself After Losing Identity in Roles

I got married at 18 and had my two kids back-to-back, just a year apart. Overnight, my entire life became about being a wife and a mom. Every ounce of love, energy, and focus I had went into raising my kids and building a home. And honestly? I...

For years, I thought love meant always saying yes.
Yes to favors I didn’t want to do.
Yes to crossing my own boundaries.
Yes to bending myself into whatever version of me I thought others wanted.

I told myself it was kindness. I told myself it was love. But the truth? It wasn’t love at all.

It was...

We all want to be seen, loved, and appreciated. A single compliment can light up your entire day. Someone says, “You look amazing,” or “You crushed that project,” and suddenly you feel like you can conquer the world. But then the glow fades, and you find yourself craving the next hit.

Sound familia...

🌹 My Story

When I was younger, saying no to drugs was easy. They felt foreign, dangerous, and outside of me. But intimacy? That was different.

Sometimes my yes wasn’t a real yes. It was a survival yes.
A “keep me safe” yes.
A “don’t leave me” yes.

If you’ve ever been there — where your body whisp...

💔 The Cry That Almost Broke Me

I’ll never forget the night I thought I lost it all. My husband and I were separated, both seeing other people, and I sat across from him at dinner—heart pounding, hands trembling—as I told him the truth: I want you back.

He looked at me with steady eyes and said wor...

I’ve built studios. I’ve closed studios.

I’ve signed divorce papers… and then torn them up.
I’ve failed classes, failed in business, failed in friendships.

And I’ve gotten back up. Every. Single. Time.

Because here’s the truth: anything worth doing will test you first.
Failure is not a sign you s...

🚨 Red Flags, Lockouts & Lessons: How I Walked Away From “The Perfect” Studio Space — And Why You Might Need To, Too

The first time I saw it, I swear my heart skipped a beat.

Two historic brick buildings, built in 1900, standing side by side like sisters. Each had its own loft — one for Lumina, my ...

✨ Sensual Power & Sacred Confidence: Reclaiming Your Sensuality, Your Body, and Your Life

Let’s talk about the fire that lives inside of you.
The one that makes your hips sway without effort.
The one that makes you catch your own reflection and think—oh yes, she’s still in there.
The one that feels...

✨ Look At Me Now: The Truth About Building a Dream Life (From the Inside Out)

You see the photos.
The glowing studio lights.
The curated Canva boards.
The workouts that make you feel alive and fierce.

But what you don’t always see…
is the emotional earthquake it takes to become the woman who build...