Play More, Worry Less: Rediscovering the Joy of Fun as Adults

Let’s start with something fun: When was the last time you laughed so hard your cheeks hurt, danced like no one was watching, or did something just because it made you ridiculously happy? If you’re struggling to remember, you’re not alone. Life has a sneaky way of piling on responsibilities, and fun often gets pushed aside like it’s an optional dessert rather than an essential ingredient.

But here’s the truth: fun isn’t a luxury—it’s vital. It’s the secret sauce to a joyful, healthy, and fulfilling life. When we embrace play, we don’t just feel better—we live better. So let’s dive into why fun matters, how you can rediscover it, and why making room for play isn’t just a nice idea—it’s your life’s missing sparkle!

Why Fun Isn’t Just for Kids

Let’s get this straight: fun is not “childish.” It’s a life force. Research backs this up! Playful activities can:

• Reduce Stress: Fun lowers cortisol (your stress hormone) and floods your brain with endorphins (your happy chemicals). One study from the Journal of Leisure Research found that play can significantly boost life satisfaction and reduce depression. Yes, please!
• Boost Creativity: Ever notice how your best ideas come when you’re relaxed or goofing around? That’s no coincidence. Play stimulates the parts of the brain responsible for problem-solving and innovation.
• Strengthen Relationships: Laughing and playing together builds trust, connection, and shared joy. Dr. Stuart Brown, the guru of play research, says that shared play deepens bonds and makes relationships stronger.
• Improve Physical Health: Movement-based play—whether it’s dancing, hiking, or even building a fort—gets your body moving without it feeling like a chore. It’s exercise, but fun!

Dr. Brown even goes as far as saying that play is as important as sleep or nutrition. Think about that for a second. Would you go days without eating or sleeping? Of course not! So why do we let ourselves go weeks—or even months—without prioritizing fun?

What Happens When We Stop Playing?

When we lose our sense of play, life starts to feel heavy, like an endless series of “shoulds.” Our stress levels spike, our creativity shrinks, and we stop dreaming big. Without fun, we become so focused on getting things done that we forget how to enjoy the journey.

But here’s the good news: fun is always waiting for you. You don’t have to be “good” at something to enjoy it. You just have to show up, let go, and give yourself permission to play.

How to Rediscover Fun as an Adult

The easiest way to bring fun back into your life? Think like a kid. Remember what made you smile when you were younger. Did you love riding bikes, building forts, or dancing around your room? Those moments don’t have to stay in the past—they can live right here, right now.

Here are a few ideas to get you started:

• Dance It Out: Your living room is calling! Put on your favorite playlist and dance like no one’s watching. Bonus: dancing is great for your mood and your body! (Check out my free dance workouts on YouTube to get moving!)
• Build an Indoor Fort: Grab some blankets, fairy lights, and pillows, and create your cozy escape. It’s nostalgic, fun, and totally stress-relieving.
• Play Games: Board games, trivia apps, or charades—whatever gets you laughing and connecting. Play is one of the simplest ways to bond with others.
• Tap into Creativity: Try painting, baking, writing, or any hobby that lets you express yourself. Creativity isn’t about perfection—it’s about play.
• Plan a Mini Adventure: Explore a new part of your city, try a new coffee shop, or take a different route home. Even small changes can feel like an adventure.

Here’s the thing: Fun isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being present.

Fun in 5 Minutes a Day

Don’t have hours to spare? No problem. Even five minutes of fun can lighten your mood and reset your day. Try these quick and easy joy boosters:

1. Laugh Out Loud: Watch a funny video, listen to a comedy podcast, or call up your funniest friend.
2. Celebrate Small Wins: Did you check something off your to-do list? Treat yourself! Light a candle, sip a fancy drink, or do a happy dance.
3. Be Spontaneous: Say yes to something unexpected, like trying a new recipe or taking a detour on your way home.
4. Play a Quick Game: A puzzle app, a deck of cards, or even a round of trivia can do wonders for your mood.
5. Dance While You Wait: Waiting for your coffee to brew? Bust a move. Turn everyday moments into fun ones.

Remember, joy isn’t about how much time you have—it’s about how you choose to use it.

Join the Fun: My Free 7-Day Adventure Challenge!

If you’re ready to make fun a priority, I’ve got just the thing for you: my free 7-Day Adventure Challenge! Each day, I’ll guide you through simple activities designed to spark joy, creativity, and playfulness in your life.

Follow me on Instagram, TikTok, and Pinterest to join the challenge. And don’t forget to tag me in your posts—I’d love to see how you’re rediscovering fun!

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Because here’s the truth: Life isn’t meant to be endured—it’s meant to be enjoyed. Let’s promise to play more, dream bigger, and celebrate every messy, beautiful, magical moment along the way.

Your Turn: What Will You Do for Fun Today?

So, what’s one fun thing you’re going to do today? Share it with me on social media, and let’s inspire each other to bring more joy into our lives.

Until next time, keep smiling, keep playing, and remember—you deserve a life that feels as amazing as you are! 💖